Jane LederNov 1, 20194 minSisters I hadn't seen my sister in two years--two years until last week. She lives in Ohio; I live in Illinois. It's a six-hour drive, if not longer. It's a drive...
Jane LederJul 12, 20162 minThe Last Time I Saw My FatherFunny how a memory pops up when we least expect it. Our minds go to unexpected places at unpredictable times. Sometimes there’s an obvious link; often, mem...
Jane LederJun 22, 20162 minBelated Father’s Day MusingsFather’s Day has come and gone. I took my husband out to dinner and bought the proverbial “You’re the best father in the world” card and cards from each of ...
Jane LederMay 4, 20164 minTo Mom With ApologiesMy mother age 91 I wish you were here so I could make these apologies in person. But as you know, you’ve been dead for almost 9 years now. Remember: You di...
Jane LederApr 4, 20162 minSiblings: When We’re All Grown UpSisters: When We’re All Grown Up My sister turned 65 last week. I forgot to call. I have an excuse . . . well, sort of. I was in Mexico enjoying the sun o...
Jane LederJun 16, 20154 minMy Brother’s SuicideOn his thirtieth birthday, some time in mid-afternoon, my brother stuck a hunting rifle in his mouth and pulled the trigger. The coroner said he died instant...
