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How Does Your Garden Grow?
My husband and I live in a family neighborhood. We've lived in the same renovated farmhouse for twenty-six years and counting. Many...
Jane Leder
Sep 28, 20203 min read


So Long Melatonin: Audiobooks Are The Best Sleep Aid on the Market Today
I was a literary snob. The idea of listening to an audiobook instead of reading seemed like a copout. I love holding a book, listening...
Jane Leder
Sep 15, 20205 min read


Can I Get A Witness . . . Or, At Least, A Bra That Fits?
I need a new bra that fits. I've worn my sports bras to far too many dance and yoga classes and no amount of hand washing in special...
Jane Leder
Sep 8, 20203 min read


Put Your Leftovers On Ice
I don't know about you and your friends. I can only speak from personal experience. The pandemic is always the first topic of...
Jane Leder
Sep 6, 20202 min read


I Ask For Your Understanding: One More Post About Hair in the Time of Covid19
Back at the end of April, I blogged about hair. I knew it was a subject that many women were talking about, even during the Pandemic. ...
Jane Leder
Aug 31, 20203 min read


Relationships: Oh, Boy!
A friend and I sat in my backyard on a sunny, almost-too-hot afternoon. Each of us had had a minor "run in" with our partners and...
Jane Leder
Aug 22, 20204 min read


My Hairbrush and Me
You know the Pandemic is getting to me when I blog about my hairbrush. But, hey, when writing is a lifeline as it is for me, any topic...
Jane Leder
Aug 17, 20202 min read


ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
I don't know how you feel but, when I hear about "older" people and their risk for the Coronavirus and then realize that most of my...
Jane Leder
Aug 14, 20202 min read


The "Oh, My Back" Squat
I remember looking at women who were gardening or reaching for an item on the lowest shelf in the grocery store--any action that required...
Jane Leder
Aug 7, 20203 min read


Forgiveness
I didn't intend to blog about forgiveness. But at the end of the BBC series "The Victim," there was a quote by the Persian poet, mystic,...
Jane Leder
Jul 31, 20202 min read


Celebrating A Big B'day During The Pandemic
Well, let's say the celebration was not the big bash I'd planned. Seventy-five is a milestone. I'm still standing and doing quite well,...
Jane Leder
Jul 28, 20203 min read


Seniors Getting Scammed (Count me in)
I couldn't believe it when my dad, then in his mid-80s, called and, sounding desperate, asked for my help. "Your mother has been scammed...
Jane Leder
Jul 17, 20204 min read


SCREW XFINITY & ALL THE REST
When it comes to a battle with Xfinity or AT&T, Apple, Microsoft--any gigantic corporation--well, it's game on. You ain't getting me...
Jane Leder
Jul 13, 20204 min read


Black Lives Matter To Me, Too
I think I felt my connection to blacks most strongly the day my dear friend Joel and I walked through the dance studio in the middle of a...
Jane Leder
Jul 6, 20205 min read


"Nowhere To Run To, Baby, Nowhere to Hide"
I turn seventy-five in a month. The passage of time is startling. It seems that I just posted a blog "OMG, I'm Turning 70." Where did...
Jane Leder
Jun 26, 20203 min read


Praying & Swearing: Huh?
I get it: the two activities seemingly have absolutely nothing to do with one another. Not for me! Let me explain: for as long as I can...
Jane Leder
Jun 17, 20203 min read
Don't Mind Me: Just A Bit Sappy
Don't it always seem to go That you don't know what you've got 'Til it's gone -- Joni Mitchell, "Big Yellow Taxi" The other night, I...
Jane Leder
Jun 12, 20202 min read


Talking Ourselves Into Acceptance
Today, I needed a pep talk. So, I scrolled through my posts from almost a year ago and found this one. It made me laugh and reminded me...
Jane Leder
Jun 6, 20203 min read


Covid Firsts: What You've Done For The First Time Ever
So, I've been thinking about the firsts during this pandemic and the hours and hours we've spent, at home, often alone or with one other per
Jane Leder
May 29, 20203 min read
Father (Mother) Time Moving In The Wrong Direction
Funny thing, time. Like most folks 50+ (and I'm way beyond that!), I want to slow things down, to make the weeks and months, and, yes,...
Jane Leder
May 21, 20202 min read
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